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If Help Never Comes, Will You Still Get It Done?

  • lettersbyreesianal
  • Oct 13, 2025
  • 3 min read

What’s going on, fam? 


Let me ask you something real quick.  If the help you thought was coming never shows up… will you still make sure the mission gets done?


That’s what we talked about, and let me tell you, this hit home for a lot of folks.


Discipline > Motivation


Fam, a lot of us get stuck because we’re waiting for somebody to come through. Maybe you’re waiting for:


  • Family to help you clear land

  • Friends to come build that barn

  • The government to approve a grant or loan

  • Somebody to show up and say, “I got you”

But what happens if they never do? Will you sink or swim?


Discipline beats motivation every single time. When you make the decision to show up no matter what, even if you have to do it alone, things start to shift.


Homesteading Example: What If Help Never Comes?


Stop Waiting, Start Building

If Help Never Comes

Let’s speak plain: homesteading ain’t for the lazy. If nobody comes to help you clear land, tend animals, or build fences , will you just sit there waiting?


Nah, fam. You show up anyway.


And when you start making moves, that’s when help tends to show up. People don’t usually want to hop on board until they see momentum.


Adjust Your Expectations


One of the best ways to avoid disappointment? Stop expecting people to show up for you the way you would show up for them.


When you expect nothing and put your head down and grind, you don’t get bitter. And when help does come? Your gratitude is that much greater.


Become a One-Man (or One-Woman) Team


Sometimes God will call you to be a one-man team for a season. That’s okay.

  • If nobody builds it, start building.

  • If nobody funds it, start saving a little at a time.

  • If nobody believes in it, believe in it yourself.

And watch what happens — the Most High meets you more than halfway.


The Amish Got This Right


Imagine if our communities worked like the Amish. They come together and put up a whole barn in a day. Everybody pitches in because they value community.


We may not have 30 neighbors ready to drop everything for us, but we can start building our own mini-communities and connecting with like-minded people who offer help without being asked.


Content Creators, Listen Up


This isn’t just for homesteading. If you’re a creator , stop watching your view count and just create.

Whether 1 person shows up, 10 people, or 1,000, still bring the value.


Stop Waiting — Just Start


Fam, let me leave you with this: stop waiting for perfect conditions. Stop waiting for every single resource. Stop waiting for approval.


Just start.


And when you start, watch how God sends you the materials, the funds, the help,  exactly when you need it.

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